Don't bother about people who judge you without knowing you.
REMEMBER dogs bark if they don't know the person.
Thursday, 27 June 2013
Thought For Today-Don't bother about people who judge you without knowing you.
Don't bother about people who judge you without knowing you.
REMEMBER dogs bark if they don't know the person.
Story in Hindi
एक बूढ़ा था जो शहर की गलियों-गलियों घूमता और चिल्लाता जाता था - " मूर्ख हूँ- मूर्ख हूँ " लोग उसकी बात पर ध्यान न देते, क्यों कि सब उसे पागल समझते थे। बच्चे उसे परेशान करते। बड़े उसे दुत्कारते।
एक दिन एक अक्लमंद आदमी ने उसे सहानुभूतिपूर्वक खाना खिलाया, कपड़े आदि दिए और प्रेम से पूछा- " क्यों भाई, ये क्या चिल्लाते रहते हो- " मूर्ख हूँ-मूर्ख हूँ " ? मुझे तुम ज़रा भी मूर्ख नहीं लगते। "
वह अचानक रो उठा। बोला- " तुमने डूबा गाँव का नाम सुना होगा। आज से तीस साल पहले वहां भयंकर बाढ़ आई थी। उस में मेरा सर्वस्व डूब गया था। मैं उस गाँव का सबसे धनी साहूकार था। मैंने जिन्दगी भर अपना और अपने कुटुम्ब का पेट काट-काट कर धन जोड़ा था. न खाया, ना दान-धर्म किया। मुझ से बडा मूर्ख कौन होगा।" इतना कह वह शहर के बाहर खण्डहर की और भाग गया।
अक्लमंद आदमी के मुंह से निकल गया - " बेचारा बदनसीब "
जिन्दगी की सीख : वह खुशनसीब है जिसने खाया और दान-धर्म भी किया और वह बदनसीब है, जिसने जमा किया और छोड़कर मर गया।
एक दिन एक अक्लमंद आदमी ने उसे सहानुभूतिपूर्वक खाना खिलाया, कपड़े आदि दिए और प्रेम से पूछा- " क्यों भाई, ये क्या चिल्लाते रहते हो- " मूर्ख हूँ-मूर्ख हूँ " ? मुझे तुम ज़रा भी मूर्ख नहीं लगते। "
वह अचानक रो उठा। बोला- " तुमने डूबा गाँव का नाम सुना होगा। आज से तीस साल पहले वहां भयंकर बाढ़ आई थी। उस में मेरा सर्वस्व डूब गया था। मैं उस गाँव का सबसे धनी साहूकार था। मैंने जिन्दगी भर अपना और अपने कुटुम्ब का पेट काट-काट कर धन जोड़ा था. न खाया, ना दान-धर्म किया। मुझ से बडा मूर्ख कौन होगा।" इतना कह वह शहर के बाहर खण्डहर की और भाग गया।
अक्लमंद आदमी के मुंह से निकल गया - " बेचारा बदनसीब "
जिन्दगी की सीख : वह खुशनसीब है जिसने खाया और दान-धर्म भी किया और वह बदनसीब है, जिसने जमा किया और छोड़कर मर गया।
Moral Story-Right Delegation is the Key to Success...
Right Delegation is the Key to Success...
Once there was a famous wrestler and he was so powerful that he can crush anybody in minutes. After a hectic tournament, he returned home and was about to take rest.He found a little mouse playing in his bed room and tried to catch it.
The smart mouse escaped from all his efforts and still was playing there. He lost his sleep and his wife told him to assign a cat to catch that mouse.
He went out and brought one mighty cat. The cat was very famous for doing excellent tricks and won many prizes.
He brought the cat from his owner for a day.
After reaching his bed room, he was curious to watch that little mouse is killed. The cat walked around and the mouse came out.
The cat tried to catch it but unfortunately it failed from all it's attempt to catch that little mouse.
After few minutes, the mouse scared the cat and the cat ran away.
As this wrestler was very famous, he went to his king's palace and met the mighty cat in the palace. Asked the cat to help him.
The King's cat was very clever and powerful. The wrestler brought the king's cat to his home and awaiting to see the little mouse is killed.
After few minutes, the King's cat was also failed in all it's attempts to catch the mouse and was tired.
He carried the cat to the palace and asked the cat on it's way to the palace to help him with an idea to kill the mouse.
The King's cat quietly answered him.. "Dear Wrestler, to catch that little mouse, you don't need a tricky cat or a wise cat like me.
I am clever but I am not good at catching a mouse. As I live in palace, I never knew hunger and never tried so hard to catch a little meal.
Like me, the tricky cat also never starved for food. I suggest you to take a street cat to your home".
The wrestler somehow wanted to remove the troublesome mouse from his bed room and finally took a street cat to his home.
The street cat was looking very simple and the wrestler was not confident on that cat.
Once they entered the home, the cat rushed from the hands of the wrestler and ran fast into his bed room and was casually walking out of his home with that little mouse on it's mouth. Everything was over in few seconds.
The wrestler was astonished and asked the street cat how he caught that mouse in seconds.
The cat replied, "I don't know sir. I am just a simple street cat" and walked away..
MORALE:
Today's most effective way of management is "Management by Delegation".
We need to choose the right person and assign the right responsibilities to him.
Even 2000 years ago, the Tamil Great Poet Tiruvalluvar explained this as, "We need to research on who will do what and assign that to him"..
Once there was a famous wrestler and he was so powerful that he can crush anybody in minutes. After a hectic tournament, he returned home and was about to take rest.He found a little mouse playing in his bed room and tried to catch it.
The smart mouse escaped from all his efforts and still was playing there. He lost his sleep and his wife told him to assign a cat to catch that mouse.
He went out and brought one mighty cat. The cat was very famous for doing excellent tricks and won many prizes.
He brought the cat from his owner for a day.
After reaching his bed room, he was curious to watch that little mouse is killed. The cat walked around and the mouse came out.
The cat tried to catch it but unfortunately it failed from all it's attempt to catch that little mouse.
After few minutes, the mouse scared the cat and the cat ran away.
As this wrestler was very famous, he went to his king's palace and met the mighty cat in the palace. Asked the cat to help him.
The King's cat was very clever and powerful. The wrestler brought the king's cat to his home and awaiting to see the little mouse is killed.
After few minutes, the King's cat was also failed in all it's attempts to catch the mouse and was tired.
He carried the cat to the palace and asked the cat on it's way to the palace to help him with an idea to kill the mouse.
The King's cat quietly answered him.. "Dear Wrestler, to catch that little mouse, you don't need a tricky cat or a wise cat like me.
I am clever but I am not good at catching a mouse. As I live in palace, I never knew hunger and never tried so hard to catch a little meal.
Like me, the tricky cat also never starved for food. I suggest you to take a street cat to your home".
The wrestler somehow wanted to remove the troublesome mouse from his bed room and finally took a street cat to his home.
The street cat was looking very simple and the wrestler was not confident on that cat.
Once they entered the home, the cat rushed from the hands of the wrestler and ran fast into his bed room and was casually walking out of his home with that little mouse on it's mouth. Everything was over in few seconds.
The wrestler was astonished and asked the street cat how he caught that mouse in seconds.
The cat replied, "I don't know sir. I am just a simple street cat" and walked away..
MORALE:
Today's most effective way of management is "Management by Delegation".
We need to choose the right person and assign the right responsibilities to him.
Even 2000 years ago, the Tamil Great Poet Tiruvalluvar explained this as, "We need to research on who will do what and assign that to him"..
Friday, 24 May 2013
A SHORT YET STRONG STORY
A SHORT YET STRONG STORY.....
There was a King who had 1 Eye and 1 leg....
He asked all the painters to draw a beautiful portrait of him. But none of them could -- how could they paint him beautifully with the defects in one eye and one leg. Eventually one of them agreed and drew a classic picture of the King.
It was a fantastic picture and surprised everyone..
He painted the King AIMING for a HUNT. Targeting with ONE Eye Closed and One Leg Bent ...
MORAL : Why can’t we all paint pictures like this for others. Hiding their Weaknesses and highlighting their Strengths!!
MORAL : Why can’t we all paint pictures like this for others. Hiding their Weaknesses and highlighting their Strengths!!
A Lot Of Trouble Would Disappear
If Only People Would Learn To Talk To One Another
Instead Of Talking About One Another .....
Monday, 15 October 2012
POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE
POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE
Rany usch was a professor of Computer Science, Human Computer Interaction, and Design at Carnegie Mellon University ,H e died of pancreatic cancer in 2008, but wrote a book ‘The last lecture” before then, one of the bestsellers in 2007. What a legacy to leave behind …
In a letter to his wife Jai and his children, Dylan, Logan, and Chloe, he wrote this beautiful "guide to a better life" for his wife and children to follow.
May we all be blessed by his insight.
Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
7. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
8. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
9. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
10. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
11. Smile and laugh more
12. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Community:
13. Call your family often
14. Each day give something good to others
15. Forgive everyone for everything
16. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
17. Try to make at least three people smile each day
18. What other people think of you is none of your business
19. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Life:
20. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
21. GOD heals everything
22. Do the right things
23. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
24. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
While you practice all of the above, share this knowledge with the people you love, people you school with,
people you play with, people you work with and people you live with.
Not only will it enrich YOUR life, but also that of those around you.
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